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My way, my way! Get outta my way!

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (ESV) “My way, my way! Get outta my way! ” my toddler says as she squeezes her way behind me on the couch.   “Say excuse me,” I remind her. “‘’Scoo me,” she says as she continues to push her way through, and the limits of my patience. Being a mom to a toddler is harder than I remember. I’ve been through these years with my older kids, but I thought this time would be a breeze with the experience of being an older mom.  However, her temperament is a  little more turbulent than breezy. My husband and I aren’t sure what will work best for her.  I think she needs limits and consequences and discussed the possibility of time-outs.  He didn’t like my idea and backed up his thoughts with an article explaining how punishment can be harmful to toddlers.   His parenting approach seems to put her in char